I know that many of you who read this blog don't often respond. The reason I know that is I've had countless numbers of you tell me things you saw here ... but you left no opinion. I also know that many of you who read this stuff are rooted deeply in your church ministry - whether paid by green dollars or by eternal ones!
Listen. Everybody's got opinions. So it's time some of you mute yelpers sound off.
I've been thinking about this topic lately, but didn't quite know how to address it. Maybe I can hammer it out, so here's what I'm wondering:
what is it about church and church life that frustrates you the most? Since this is my keen idea, I'll start.
Perhaps my biggest frustration in church life is lack of spiritual maturity. So now I must already qualify my statement and offer the disclaimer that I'm not claiming to have fully arrived. No sir. What I'm saying is that for years as a pastor, I've noticed that there are so many people who operate in the church for ... literally ... decades ... and yet they still respond to situations in life as if they are spiritual infants.
A quick example: 5 or so years ago a friend of mine was in a leadership meeting with me. Many of our church leaders were there to hammer out some various leadership stuff. My friend, a worship pastor, asked this simple question, "What is worship?"
A lady, well respected, definitely dear in heart, and someone I personally loved, responded, "Well, worship is a time where you gather in God's house to be with your family and friends."
Would it bother you that this lady had been teaching Adult bible study for over 30 years, and was seen as a pillar in the life of the church? Here answer horrified me. For her, worship was nostalgia. Precious memories. How they linger. Dinner on the grounds. Sunday preachin'. Apple pie. This is what I'm getting at.
I see it in other areas. Tenured church members have their business dealings which are no different from any other non-believer. They treat church business as if there is no spiritual maturity involved. The respond to life pretty much the same ways a non-believer would.
I'll go so far as to say this: why is it that people who are the oldest in the faith often seem to emboy the greatest amount of spiritual immaturity.
Clarity called for once again: by "oldest" I'm not necessarily referring to age range. Sometimes, however, that has been exactly the case in my pastoral experience. Yet not always. I mean, there are people I've met who are 45 years old, and have been around the church since birth. And I see no real life change in how they approach kingdom work.
So that's me. Your turn. I mean it. Holler out.
And remember, the great thing about a blog is that you can make up a name and keep your anonymity!